It’s never easy to say good-bye, especially at an airport where you usually do not have the luxury to linger. I was intrigued when I saw this posted to Twitter recently: “Had coffee with my husband at the airport this morning, a date without the kids for the first time in a long time.” (That’s 117 characters by the way). This was posted by Pam Slim, a person I follow on Twitter who is an entrepreneur, wife and mother. She travels a lot as does my wife and her posting hit home. I typed back that that line sounded like a song and I wrote it down in my journal. After looking at the line for a few days I knew that there was a story in there. It may not be Pam’s story or even my story, but I’m sure this happens all too often: one spouse goes and one souse stays to make sure there is something to come back to. What are the feelings involved? Loneliness, regret, resentment, guilt, nostalgia? The list could go on and on. I also thought about the person leaving and how they have one side at home and one side that is committed to the trip to where ever they are headed. The one constant throughout this scene is love: love on the other side of good-bye, love on the other side of the person who is leaving.

This is a demo recording and the thing I’ve noticed is that I don’t think I should be singing this song. Perhaps this is more a song suited to a female voice? What do you think?

Peace -

Darryl

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The Other Side of You

I just had coffee with you in the airport
Waitin’ for your plane
A date without the kids
The first one in I can’t remember when
Another week-long business trip
They’re callin’ your flight to leave
And I miss you already
I can’t let go of your hand

There are so many ways to interpret this scene
We pick the one that makes us feel alright
Say good-bye, see you soon, just make me believe
That our love isn’t a lie
This love isn’t a lie

‘cause on one side you go
One side you stay
One side you know what is true
One side’s your heart
One side’s your fate
But my love will be waiting on the other side of you

The kids are in bed but they’ve been askin’
When you’d be comin’ home
Please stop by the gift shop
Those little things help them forgive
Our bed is half empty
I put a pillow where you usually sleep
I turn out the light, check the time
It’s too late for my wish

Are you as lost as I am with out you
Do you ever ask what we’re working for
College tuition, Disney Land trips
It seems we always want more
It seems we always want more

‘cause on one side you go
One side you stay
One side you know what is true
One side’s your heart
One side’s your fate
But my love will be waiting on the other side of you

I just want to dance
Like we did that first night
Where did the moments go
In our hands then out of sight
Out of sight out of mind

‘cause on one side you go
One side you stay
One side you know what is true
One side’s your heart
One side’s your fate
But my love will be waiting on the other side of you

These days we can probably say that there are a lot of things out there that would make us believe we are all alone. But as I was watching the news on CNN recently, I turned to my wife and said, “I miss Walter Cronkite…” She replied, “I know what you mean.” I turned the channel to Comedy Central.

I kept thinking about that line though. What was it I missed? His take on the news? or his demeanor? I remember Cronkite and I watched him once in a while when I was a bit older. I primarily remember him from the moon shots because I was glued to the TV during all of the Apollo missions.

I wrote a quick verse about Cronkite and then started to write freely about other TV personalities that I admired from my youth and I came up with Johnny Carson, Carroll O’Connor, Carol Burnett, Mary Tyler Moore and a few more. I loved TV when I was a kid in the 70′s: The Rockford Files, All In The Family, Sanford and Son, Mary Tyler Moore Show. There are no shows on like those today. I loved watching them and became familiar with the characters. But, these days I got nobody to turn to for good news, good laughs, good drama. Ah! There’s my hook!

I wrote the lyrics to this song first, so while I was trying to find a melody I kept hearing this train beat running through the song and I knew that this was going to be one of those hillbilly twang tunes. If and when I do record this for a CD I’m going to have to find someone that is well versed in that style of playing because I’m just hinting at what I wanted from the electric guitar.

A tip of the hat goes to Andrea Stolpe and her book “Popular Lyric Writing” for helping me through the rest of this song. I’m going to continue to use her 10-step process in my future lyric writings.

Let me know what you think!

Peace

~dg~

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These Days

I miss seeing Walter Cronkite
On the network evening news
Everything he said to me
Seemed like it was the truth
His voice was like my father’s
So serious an calm
I felt like was coming home
Every time I turned him on

But these days
I got nobody to turn to
These days
I don’t know who is wrong or who is right
These days are pullin’ me
Underneath the blankets
These days are turning
Into one long night

I miss seeing Johnny Carson
On TV late at night
I didn’t always get his jokes
But I guess that was alright
Easing out onto the stage
As Doc played that famous theme
One-liners about our messed up world
And he’d put my mind at ease

But these days
I got nobody to turn to
These days
I don’t know who is wrong or who is right
These days are pullin’ me
Underneath the blankets
These days are turning
Into one long night

I place my hand
Upon the TV set
A cool digital spirit
That conjures no respect
Self-absorbed reality 
Our pop culture fad
The good stuff’s all gone boy
And it ain’t comin’ back

Mary Tyler Moore’s not in
My house on Saturdays
Like she she used to be
Back in the 1970’s
She was like my big sister
Who had moved far away from home
But I could always drop in on her life
Whenever I felt all alone

But these days
I got nobody to turn to
These days
I don’t know who is wrong or who is right
These days are pullin’ me
Underneath the blankets
These days are turning
Into one long night

© 2009

I put together a reel of a few songs to demo my country-rock and country chops for a possible publisher. How to choose, how to choose? Well I decided to put it in a format that sounds a little like a set I would do live. Start out loud, get softer, get silly, get serious, rock out to end.

The first excerpt is a bit of music I did as a lead-in for a web-show: “Choose Your Words” , next is a bluegrass style song: “Where You’re Supposed to Be”, a country duet: “What About Love?”, a silly love song w/ukulele: “Fall in Love Again”, another country duet off of my CD: “I Can’t Wait for Love”, the bridge and solo section from a rocker: “My Revolution”, and to end it the last verse and outro from the title track of my CD: “She”.

There’s some variety and it shows a broad enough range I think. We’ll see. Let me know what you think.

Peace -

~DG~

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Don’t worry, be happy. Words to live by, yet we all worry about something. Some people worry more than others, but we all worry to some extent. Where does it end? The worry that is. Can we grab worry by the throat and kill it? or do we get lead around by the nose for the the span of our years by the fears of the unknown?

This song is about not worrying about what we had or what we will have. We used to do certain things and now we do other things. We can go back and get those things or even relive them because we’re different and even the places we did those things are different. So let’s be happy with what we have and think about the actions that will affect the changes to what we have. Don’t look around for things that we don’t have right in our hands because this is where we’re supposed to be.

Let me know what you think! Leave a reply, tell a friend

Peace & Happiness,

~dg~

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Where You’re S’posed to Be

We put our pennies on the table
I got coffee you got tea
Then we sat and pondered Shakepeare
At a café on Bleeker Street

But babe this ain’t New York City
And we ain’t 20 any more
Now we’re livin in the suburbs
And weekends on the Jersey Shore

Don’t look up
Don’t look down
Don’t look back
Don’t look around
This is where we’re supposed to be

They say you can’t buy happiness
It’s in the eye of a child
You can’t find clarity
When your thoughts are runnin’ wild
So be still – nothin’ to do
The world turns and so do you
Try to see
This is where we’re supposed to be

Baby’s cryin’ for no reason
Phone is ringin’ off the hook
Is this a perfect moment?
Why don’t you stop and take a look

But babe we’re born to distraction
Even though the candy’ in our hand
So let’s just sit here and take it easy
Stick your feet back in the sand

Don’t look up
Don’t look down
Don’t look back
Don’t look around
This is where we’re supposed to be

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married-30rsIt’s interesting to try to determine whether a song is sad or uplifting. What is it that makes a piece of poetry happier than another? Unless we’re dealing with Hallmark Cards, there is usually some aspect of a verse that has some underlying bite of mortality to it. Things change and it’s hard to accept. Change and regret, love and release.

I originally thought this songs was about divorce. I was singing it as a solo and from the point of view of the singer it sounded to me like he wanted out. Was I everything? Well its time to try something else – stop the newspaper and call the kids. But when sung as a duet it takes on a whole different aspect of a waning point in the arc of love. Well the kids are out of the house. We need to move to a smaller place. Are we OK and do we still love each other. And the answer is yes, but differently.

I had been doing this at gigs with Lisa M., but I’ve recorded here with the famous Francine Wheeler of Swanky Hotel fame and more recently of The Dream Jam Band. She lends such a beautiful, laid-back feeling of “no worries” to the female character.

Enjoy and let me know what you think.

~dg~

Photo by Ian Gonzaga. Check out his photo blog at www.iangonzaga.blogspot.com

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What About Love?

What about you
What about me
Was I your guiding light
Your rock of Gibraltar
Did I part the sea
What about the moon
What about the sun
Was I everything you wished for
Was I the one
So what about you
So what about me
And what about love

Place your hand upon my face
Each touch is a memory
A different place
I’ll stop the newspaper
I’ll call the kids
Put our stuff in a plastic box
And close the lid

So this is all we have
So this is all we’ve earned
A simple good-bye
A tear in the eye
And then we breathe
Every morning we breathe

What about you
What about me
Was I your guiding light
Your rock of Gibraltar
Did I part the sea
What about the moon
What about the sun
Was I everything you wished for
Was I the one
So what about you
So what about me
And what about love

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