Last year I started a collaboration with a lyricist on a new song that looked promising, but after many rewrites and varying attempts at orchestration, we called it a day. Part of the problem stemmed from the lyrics not being something that I would personally sing. I had a disconnect to the story and to the verbiage. But, I liked the melody and the arrangement that I wrote, it had this bright-spookiness to it that was interesting. I hated to see it abandoned.

I let the track sit for a while and revisited it to see if I could rewrite it somehow, but the original lyrics kept getting in the way when I tried to write something new. I just decided to let it sit. I had to let it sit long enough that I would be able to “forget” the lyrics that we had written.

So recently, I was writing something about a musician who has been out on the road and is coming home, but doesn’t really remember his place in the life of the person he left. I’ve been seeing a lot of stories on the news about soldiers that have been on a tour of duty for a year and then come back to their households and have a hard time trying to fit back into the flow of everyday life. The only time it seems to work is if the person that was left behind has a lot of patience and love.

I started the lyrics and wan’t sure of the form they were taking and then I remembered that I had this finished arrangement with the expendable lyrics. The hard part was making the new lyrics fit the exisiting melody and the form. I had to replace a bunch of words that didn’t work with the rhythms; a lot of scratching my head trying to think of different ways to say the same thing and still have them rhyme.

The only thing I kept from the original lyric was the phrase — beautiful again — which, in the case of the new lyrics, became the title and the resolving feature of the story.

Moral of the story is: never throw anything out… and, revisit the bone yard every once in a while to see if there’s stuff there that might inspire you.

Let me know what you think of “Beautiful Again”. Do you re-work old material? or do you just let it die?

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Beautiful Again

Verse 1:

Heading home

After miles on the road

Called you on the telephone

To lighten my load

It’s so damed hard

To just fit back in

I forget about the pleasantries

Don’t know where to begin

PreChorus 1:

But now you welcome me back with dust on my shoes

Tired to my bones I got nothing left to lose

Chorus:

Cause you pick up all the pieces

We left on the the ground – and then

You add some love and tenderness

And you make life beautiful

Beautiful again

Verse 2:

You know my heart

I’ve been a traveling man

Singing ‘bout the lonely road

Guitar in my hand

I broke your mirror

Threw my luck on the floor

Couldn’t stand to see myself

Walking out your door

PreChorus 2:

But now you kiss me like I never told you good-bye

You hold me together and make everything alright

Chorus:

Cause you pick up all the pieces

We left on the the ground – and then

You add some love and tenderness

And you make life beautiful

Beautiful again

Bridge:

Hypnotized and mesmerized

Counting all those white lines flyin’

Underneath my wheels

I knew this wasn’t real

But now I see

Now I see

How I colored it wrong

This is where I belong

With you –

Chorus:

Cause you pick up all the pieces

We left on the the ground – and then

You add some love and tenderness

And you make life beautiful

Beautiful again

 


 

Set Lists

I’m about to play a house concert and I’m starting to think about which songs I would like to play. This concert will be for some people that I already have played for and also for some people that I’ve never played for. It will probably be a group of people that are my age (mid 40s and up) so I need to choose my songs carefully so as not to alienate anybody. I want the evening to start off fast, have a smooth part and end up with some fun songs so I can need them happy and wanting more.

What I’m talking about here is creating a set list. This is the guiding list that musicians use so they know which songs they are going to play and in what order. A set list comes in handy when preparing for a show because then you know what to practice. It’s also good to know the audience that you’re going to be playing for so that you can construct a set list that will make the audience more engaged in your show.

I find that the more songs I have to choose from, the easier it is to create an effective set list. But also when you have a large grab bag of songs to choose from, it’s hard to choose which ones you want to play. You say to yourself I want to play them all – I want to play this one, I want to play that one, but in the end you have to choose and that makes it hard.

When I’m playing a venue that affords me the time to play, like two hours or more, then I might go in without a set list. I may have an idea of what songs I’d like to play, but because I have such a large amount of time and the audience may turnover, I tend to pick and choose in the moment.

Whatever the case it’s always good to have a set list – at least to know which songs you might be playing. So here’s my set list for my upcoming house concert. Now all you have to do is just show up to the concert and see how it works.

What do you do – just show up and play? or do you plan ahead?

Set List for House Concert – 2/19/2011

  1. Drivin’ In – uptempo
  2. Halfmoon Road – backbeat
  3. Aunt Jean’s Piano – med tempo
  4. A Southern Man – ballad
  5. Hold On To Her Heart – peppy love song
  6. Too Many Kids In This House! – humorous blues
  7. Steel Mill Town – ballad
  8. Count On You – cute & short
  9. If You Could Read My Mind – ballad – cover song
  10. These Days – uptempo semi-humorous
  11. I Want To Fall In Love Again – novelty, uke
  12. Where You’re Supposed to Be -
  13. One – cover song
  14. My Blue Sky – up tempo – serious
  15. Hillbilly Backyard – humorous blues
  16. Red Haired Woman – rocker
 

Mike Grutka on tour

This blog post has two lessons, so please pay attention as there will be a quiz at the end.

First is this: The best resources are our peers/colleagues/fellow-musicians. All you have to do is ask a question. Most of us who are swimming in this pond would be flattered to be asked for an opinion or what our advice would be on a certain subject. It always helps to get as many POV’s as possible. I am planning to do another tour this summer and noticed a musician on Twitter that has a similar vibe and was doing a solo tour. We even played the same club in Pittsburgh (not the same night) last summer! While my tour was fun, I want to do more this summer. So as a preparation I decided to ask Mike Grutka for some touring advice. After you read it check out Mike’s music and follow Mike on Twitter @mike_grutka and Facebook

Which brings us up to the second part of the lesson: Mike’s response. I will reprint it as I got it since I feel that would make it more effective to see exactly what I got from him after I asked. Feel free to take notes!

From Me:
Hey Mike -
Happy New Year -
So let me hear how you go about setting up your tours. It sounds like it is just you (solo).
Do you book it yourself?
Do you use something like Tourbinder.com or IndieOnThe Move.com?
What’s your goal when you tour?
Do you make any money – break even – lose?
My issues in setting up a little tour last summer was finding appropriate spaces that are in a logical route and communication with venues – bookers are slow to respond and then when they do I’ve already booked something else. I did not break even, but I was traveling with my wife and son so we stayed in a nice motel or two. I guess if I was ‘hard-core’ I could’ve saved money by sleeping in the car or a cheaper place.
Interested in your take on this -
Thanks
Darryl
From Mike:
Ah- as if I know what I’m doing…. haha!

Well, here’s what I did:
I thought about where I wanted to go/get to and how long I wanted to go out for.  I figured since I was driving, I’d get to NC.  Then I figured I could swing back up or go into SC or Georgia based on where I could get a show.
Then all I had was the Indie Venue Bible.  This is a great and awful thing.  It takes a lot of research to see what the place is even like.  They list a ton of stuff, but some of it is pizza places with open mics so you have to weed them out.
As far as contacting venues,  I found that once I had a date, it got easier.  Once you have someplace to get to/from you can work off that.  It gives a little urgency to your request.  I was a ble to start requesting a show between date A and B cause I’d be in their area.  I also looked at their calendar as much as I could to see if they had an opening in that date range.  If you can say you need Jan 10-14 cause you’ll be in Philly area and you see they have Jan 11 open that gives them less to think about.
Some only like e-mails some like phone calls.  Never hurts to call  the venue either way and get the scoop from someone other than the booking person.  And once you get any response, try to get them on the phone.  Of course, save ALL e-mails so they cant’ argue details with you later if that occurs.
My goal in touring is to play for as many people as I can.  Meet people.  Other bands/musicians and see what they’re doing.  EMAIL LIST!!  EMAIL LIST!!
Selling merch is great too.  I think if you do a good show then at least 1 person will get something.  And that’s like 2 meals at subway!!!
I tried to eat cheap.  Subway is obviously great and they’re everywhere.  Grocery stores RULE!  Most have the ‘pre made meal’ section and have salads/subs etc so you can eat healthy.
Hotels– I tented most of it.  Cause it was nice out, and cheaper, and i called it ‘Tent Tour 2010′ to use some cool alliteration.  When I had to stay due to weather, i can tell you that Travelocity has a ‘secret hotel deal’ option.  I got into a beautiful place in Pittsburgh for like $70 which was a 4 star $225/night room.  Hotwire is good too.   Sleep is important and I learned that you get what you pay for….When I was In NC, I had to get out of the tent cause it rained like 4 inches in 2 days.  I found the cheapest room I could find that was close by–$45/night:  SCORE!!  Well, the room smelled like smoke and mold and some kind of bad cheese and the bed felt like plastic was stretched over some wood.  And I didn’t trust the lock on the door so everytime I left I had to lug my equipment in and out of my car (didn’t want to leave it in the car overnight either)  so…..it costs to stay.   Always ideal when you know someone where you’re going to crash with them.
If you have enough dates, and enough lead time you can pick a chain and tell them you need rooms in such and such a city for x amount of nights you’ll be touring and sometimes you can get a deal.
Making money——–
It’s hard.  As you know.  Most places don’t want to pay you.  especially the first time you are there.  I was lucky enough to get a small fee plus….the plus could be tips, door fee, meal etc.  Always try to get food!!!   For the whole tour I probably came out a tiny bit behind or even.  I was lucky to have my Florida Shows.  It cost me a plane ticket, but i have family there to stay with and I sold out a show at $10/person.  and I sold the most CD’s there ( could be cause it was a big festival)  so that whole leg paid for itself.
Once you go, i think just play your show.  You can’t worry about the crowd whether big or small.  I ‘ve played to 150 people and got not applause or email sign ups cause the venue had a sports game on, and I’ve played to 2 and sold each one all my CD’s and a T-shirt and emails and asked if i need a place to stay.
Be on time, don’t over play your time slot, play your best songs, talk, tell stories like it’s Madison Square Garden.
Get your posters etc out to the venue on time if you promise that.  Do as much press as you can.
SAY THANK YOU no matter how you think it went.  Ask about coming back in 4-6 months right then if you can.  Assume they want you back.
some of this is stuff you already know.  Not sure it helps!?!??
As far as slow booker responses, see above, but if they DID get back to you, and you had another show in the area, you should have set up a future date.  Same as what I said before, assume you’re coming back, and now that you’ll have the other show under your belt, you have a bit more ‘ammo’ with the second venue–you played the area, now have fans, and they need to give you $17,000 cause you’re in demand!!
I gotta check out that tourbinder thing.  what is it? never heard of it.
Anyway, this is getting a little long.  Hope it’s what you were after.
Let me know if there’s anything you want more detail on.
peace
Mike
Great advice from a guy who is dealing with all of the same issues we’re ALL dealing with. It NEVER hurts to ask! Do you have a question? Ask…
 
Happy Holidays & Happy New Year

For my final newsletter of 2010, I’m going to share a list with you that I make and send out to a select few via email every now and then. It’s called a gratitude list and basically it is a list of events, things and people that I am grateful for in my life. I haven’t sent one out to my small email list in a while so I figured I’d kick-start my habit by sending this one out to you as a way of showing my gratitude to all who have heard me perform or enjoyed my music in some way this year.

Creating the list is very simple. I take a few moments to think about all that I am grateful for during the day. Then I write, “I am grateful for/that…” and filling in the rest of the sentence with my list of gratitude. This list is going to be a gratitude list dedicated to my past year of music making with you.

So here it goes:

I am grateful for/that:

  • my time spent with business coach Debra Russell who taught me how to reorient my views on music as a business. “Oh? I can make money doing this?!?”
  • all of the venues that welcomed me through their doors and allowed me to play on their stages
  • having had the opportunity to play at the BlueZ Coffeehouse and Mocha Coffeehouse in Newtown, CT and saddened that they have both closed their doors this year
  • playing new venues like – Lorain County Community College, Two Boots in Bridgeport, The CT Film Festival, Coffee Labs Roasters in Tarrytown – NY, The R-Bar in NYC, Howlers, Coyote Café in Pittsburgh, Seekers Coffeehouse in OH, The Funky Monkey in CT, The Palace Theater in Danbury
    Palace Theatre in Danbury
  • all of the patrons of these venues that stayed in their seats to listen to my songs
  • for my songwriters’ circle for their support and fraternity and the wonderful presentations we’ve produced this past year at The Ridgefield Library, The Aldrich Museum and Pia Britto’s home
  • writing FIVE new songs this past year that I really like and starting a new CD project
  • all of the press I’ve gotten this past year from wonderful local reporters
  • being able to host a house concert with Carla Lynne Hall and having a great audience
  • all of the people that have offered to host house concerts in the coming year
  • the way that the new social media technology has allowed me to connect to so many more people who have enjoyed my music, shows and connected me to other opportunities
  • putting on a small first ever tour of three cities in Pennsylvania and Ohio and feeling successful about it
  • meeting Ariel Hyatt, taking part in her blogging challenge and WINNING (I won a six-week promo campaign)
  • House Concert 12/11/20
  • attending Bill & Kay Pere’s songwriting camp and learning so much more about my craft and meeting great people
  • having the opportunity to present a topic at the Indie Music Conference as a small studio owner
  • connecting with new people: Sean & Debi Ryan, Buzz Turner, Jon Landers, Rocco Panetta, Cecilia Dahl, Noël Ramos and so many more!
  • my family who supports me and adjusts to me being away for rehearsals, gigs and conferences

I hope you have a gratitude list for this past year. Even though we’ve had pretty nasty economic and political issues to deal with, I feel that there is still a lot out there to be happy about and to be grateful for. As long as we still have music to play and listen to, life can’t be all that bad. Have a happy, healthy & productive 2011!!!

See you at a show or on the web ~
Darryl